[vampireheart]

Up front man, but it seems that if you're worried about telling her it may be because you know that deep down it may end up being alot of money spent on this line, It gets very expensive, very quickly if you're not careful or patient. In a relationship honesty is key my fiance knows about my habits but as long as I'm not blowing the mortgage/food money on toys or other cool stuff then everything is great. You just gotta know your limits and stick to them. Good Luck man.