[thechris]

Not usually, in High School, I couldn't really afford to be geeky, and I don't mean that in a figurative sense. I mean that quite literally, I didn't have the money to be geeky in the whole toy collecting sense. Also, I didn't really get into computers until halfway through High School so needless to say, I'm not physically geeky (whatever that means).

After High School, I began my journey into geekdom with various IT related professions and a renewed passion for toys, certain cartoons, video games and comics. The girl I datest for the longest time wasn't really a geek, she tried really hard to be cool and to fit in but often, she would get really hooked to things that I was into like video games, some cartoons and some of my comics. She even chose a geeky profession in IT. She could be a real bitch about my hobbies, though, and that definitely pissed me off. Other girls I've dated range from insanely geeky to not at all geeky.

I've got to say, though, that I prefer a good balanced girl who isn't overly geeky but doesn't hate everything I'm into, either. I find girls that are insanely geeky really annoying and sometimes I just can't stand them, at all. This is especially the case with the "otaku" girls who are waaay too into anime and feel the need to drop in Japanese words and baby talk into everything they say. Also don't want a girl who just talks about video games and comics and shit all day long. Sometimes you just don't want to come home to another dude.

Also, I find a lot of girls like that are a bit sociopathic and harbour a huge resentment for the people they knew through K-12 and often their own families and just can't let anything go. I'm sure not all geeky girls are like that and hell, if you hated the popular kids, then maybe you'd LIKE a girl like that. That's cool by me. Why did I even respond to this? I'm single, at the moment. LOL. Oh and it's important to say that you can have geeky hobbies without being physically geeky like Steve Urkel. If you're both, then, I don't know. That's ok... As far as girls go, though. NO. Absolutely not. I can't stand girls that are physically geeky and they do exist.

Blackrazor hit the nail on the head. MOST geeky girls I've met are not hot. The ones that are, physically, somehow ruin this with other qualities. LOL. We men can be just as shallow as women are. Also, I'm sure a lot of you guys can agree, a lot of us work hard to get to a certain point and we deserve to be with someone that we find both physically and emotionally attractive. You can talk about what's inside all you want but when I have to lay with the girl in the long term, she'd damn well better be something that I want to look at.

I'm *the*_Chris and I'm addicted to boobies!!!