[jestermon]

Yeah, it's never a good idea in a relationship to get forced into doing anything you don't want to do, especially a person you just met.

I think it's ridiculous when guys get told to get rid of their toys or the girl is going to leave, that person is emotionally unstable and isn't being very mature themselves.

On some level the girl usually in these cases must have a large sized inferiority complex that she thinks toys are more important than her, some one like that would never be satisfied with any amount of attention you give them.

Often on these boards this comes up, if the person is asking you to give it up and doesn't like you for you, you need to find someone that won't think it's weird.

Everyone has something they collect or send disposable income on, others have their "toys" just as much as us.

Do you know what some people drop on drinks a night at a club, but that's a socially acceptable money expenditure.

I assume most girls or people that have ad aversion to toys probably had a horrible childhood or have no close emotional ties to anything.

It seems that girl's just don't form long lasting nostalgic feelings to things like guys do with the franchises we grew up with, I know their are exceptions but it seems to be pretty common.