[proteus]

Call it my quaint english sensibilities....but messaging someone who beat me on an ebay item,to ask about their intentions is just a little creepy....and i just cant understand what you were thinking?? if you chatted up a girl in a bar,got blown out,and some other guy took her home,would you message him asking his intentions towards her??

Im not looking to get confrontational,and i dont want to be harsh to you because i dont know you,or your circumstances at all,i think you were naive in reaching out to this person, you totally overstepped the mark,and you came off looking like a weird toy stalker.

Its not right of this other guy to be such a dick either,but remember,this IS the internet home of power-tripping toy-jerk man-babies. My advice to you would be:

In future think twice,post once.