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So did Kylo intend to do what he did with regard to Han - or did he plan to do the opposite and just reacted badly when he got the idea of Han's presence being an indication of an attack on the base ?

Some people say he reacted poorly and didn't really mean to do it until he did it.

And other people say he did it on purpose and asked Han's permission to do what he did on the bridge as a favour to him - to rid him of his perception that it was the lightside pull causing him suffering.